Eight sample reports from all three instruments — your Circle of Friends, Romantic Consideration, and the Bullshit Finder. When anxiety defines your relationships, you can't feel safe in them. These tools guide you toward your own understanding of where people fit — and that clarity is how better boundaries form. Every questionnaire is free to complete. Subscribe to unlock reports like these.
This evaluation is a beginning — never a complete conclusion. Human beings are incredibly complex, and each person has the ability to surprise. This snapshot shows how things appear presently. What matters is trajectory and willingness: are things moving toward WITH, or toward FOR/AT/TO?
This evaluation is a beginning — never a complete conclusion. The suggestion of Circle 10 (Wisdom) means this person may teach you something important about what you don't want — and that has profound value. But learning from someone and building a life with them are different things. Trust what your body already knows.
This evaluation is a beginning — never a complete conclusion. A suggested Circle 6 (Community) at less than 3 months is not a negative result — it's appropriate pacing. A person in Circle 6 may become someone in Circle 3 or Circle 1 after genuine effort — and that journey may be beautiful. The trust scores are lower simply because trust takes time, not because this person is untrustworthy. Come back in 3 months and see what's changed.
This content shows significant manipulation or inauthenticity patterns — the mountebank's toolkit. Pressure tactics, emotional manipulation, and predatory patterns are present. Remember: the mountebank mounts the bench to sell infallible remedies. The bench always breaks. Step back, consult someone you trust, and listen to your body.
Ask yourself: Is this content operating WITH me (inviting genuine dialogue, sharing power, creating mutual value)? Or is it operating FOR itself (extracting my attention, money, or compliance), AT me (targeting my fears or desires), or TO me (treating me as an audience, not a participant)?
This content contains some manipulation patterns mixed with legitimate communication. The question to ask: is this person working WITH you toward mutual understanding, or operating FOR/AT/TO you? Pay attention to what they're actually asking you to DO — share without verifying, feel outraged, distrust a group of people. Those are extraction patterns.
This content shows relatively few manipulation patterns. That doesn't mean it's true — it means it's not using common deception tactics. The markers here are all positive: acknowledging limits, citing specific credentials, avoiding promises of guaranteed outcomes, and expressing genuine curiosity rather than prescriptive authority. Evaluate the claims on their merits.
This communication reads as WITH — inviting collaboration, acknowledging your agency, and offering expertise without claiming authority over your experience. The hallmarks of authentic professional communication.
This content shows significant manipulation or inauthenticity patterns — the mountebank's toolkit. The word "mountebank" literally means "one who mounts a bench" to sell fake cures in the town square. That is exactly what this is: an infallible remedy on a bench that always breaks. Pressure tactics, conspiracy framing, and predatory targeting of people in pain. Step back, consult your actual doctor, and listen to your body.
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